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Hi, I'm Jessica.

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What if “Financial Independence” isn’t the real goal?

You know that moment when someone asks:
“What do you really want?”
And your brain goes… blank?

Not because you don’t want things.
But because you’ve spent years chasing what made sense — and somewhere in the chase, you stopped asking what felt right.


This week, I came across something that landed deeply:

Ikigai — a Japanese concept that means:
“A reason for being” or “The joy of living.”

It’s the intersection of:

  • What you love
  • What you’re good at
  • What the world needs
  • And what you can be paid for

Not just a career.
Not just a paycheck.
Not just passion.

Something deeper.
Something that feels like you.


The Real Challenge

Most high-performing professionals don’t lack ambition.
They lack alignment.

We’re told to chase stability, success, or service — but rarely are we taught to ask:

“What brings me alive?”
“What’s worth waking up for — even if no one’s watching?”
“What does my version of enough feel like?”


Here’s the connection:

Financial Independence isn’t the goal.
It’s the framework that gives you back the capacity to pursue your Ikigai.

💸 FI is the vehicle.
Ikigai is the destination.

When you remove financial chaos, shame, and performance…
You create the space to come home to yourself.

You stop hustling to keep up…
and start choosing from clarity — not conditioning.


FI In Practice – One Micro-Move This Week:

  1. Look at your last 10 purchases
  2. Ask yourself:
    Did these reflect who I really am?
    Or who I think I need to be?

Then journal on this:

  • “What would money look like if it flowed from my joy?”
  • “Where do I feel most alive… and how can I fund more of that?”

Even one aligned decision is a reclamation.


Why this matters:

Ikigai isn’t a big, loud life change.
It’s a quiet homecoming.

And your money is one of the most powerful tools to walk yourself back home.

You’re not behind.
You’re remembering.

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